What to do Before Baby Number 2

Having a baby is exciting, but baby number two? That’s a whole new level of chaos (and love!). This time, you know what’s coming—sleepless nights, endless cuddles, and the art of juggling two little humans. But before the whirlwind begins, a little prep can make life easier. From refreshing newborn essentials to prepping your firstborn for their new sibling, there are a few things you’ll want to check off your list. In this blog, we’ll explore seven important things to do before baby number two arrives—because life’s about to get busier, and a little planning goes a long way!

7 Things to do Before Baby 2 Arrives​

1. Soak Up Some ‘You’ Time (and Sleep In!)

Remember how everyone told you to “sleep while you can” before your first baby? Well, this time, it really counts! Life with two little ones means your hands will always be full, and sleep will feel like a distant memory. So, take some guilt-free naps, indulge in solo coffee dates, and binge-watch your favorite show. Book a massage, get your hair done, or just enjoy the rare silence. Trust us—once baby number two arrives, you’ll wish you had taken these moments to recharge!

2. Make Room for Baby

Babies may be tiny, but they sure take up a lot of space! Time to declutter—sort through baby clothes, donate unused toys, and reorganize the play area. If your firstborn is moving out of the crib, transition them early so it doesn’t feel like the baby is "taking over." Create a little nook for baby essentials, so everything is easy to grab in those sleepy, late-night moments. A little prep now means less chaos later!

3. Plan for the Big Day (and Beyond!)

Labor and delivery are unpredictable, so having a (flexible!) plan is key! Arrange childcare for your firstborn so you're not scrambling last-minute. Whether it’s grandparents, a trusted friend, or daycare, make sure they’re on standby. Also, pack your hospital bag with all the essentials—comfy clothes, snacks, phone charger, and that all-important first outfit for baby. Feeling prepared means one less thing to stress about when the big moment arrives!

4. Prepare Your Firstborn for Their New Sibling

A new baby is a big adjustment for your firstborn, so start prepping them early. Read books about becoming a big brother or sister, talk about what babies need, and involve them in little tasks like picking out a toy for the baby. A special “gift from baby” can also help ease the transition—because what’s better than a new sibling? A new sibling who comes with presents!

5. Quality Time with Your Partner

Between diaper changes and sleepless nights, couple time can take a backseat. Before baby arrives, sneak in some one-on-one time with your partner. Go on a date, have an at-home movie night, or just sit and enjoy an uninterrupted conversation (remember those?). Strengthening your connection now will help you navigate the newborn stage as a team—and remind you that you’re in this together!

6. Make Special Memories with Your Firstborn

Your little one has had you all to themselves, and soon, they’ll be sharing the spotlight. Before that happens, soak up some special one-on-one moments together. Plan a “big kid” adventure—a zoo trip, a picnic, or even a simple cuddle session with their favorite book. These little moments will help them feel secure and loved, even when your arms are suddenly a little fuller.

7. Get Your Baby Book Ready (The Easy Way!)

You think you’ll have time to jot down baby milestones, but life with two kids is a whirlwind. Instead of letting memories slip away, set up your baby book now! The Dujourbaby Baby Book App makes it super easy—just snap photos, add memories, and keep track of those special firsts without the pressure. Because let’s be real, handwriting in a traditional baby book isn’t happening this time around so a digital baby book is much easier!

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Enjoy This Time—Your Way!

Preparing for baby number two is exciting, a little chaotic, and full of emotions. But remember—there’s no right way to do it. Some days, you’ll feel super organized and on top of things, and other days, you’ll just want to nap (totally valid!). The most important thing? Soak up this time, cherish the little moments, and don’t stress over the small stuff.

Every family is different, and you’ll find your own rhythm as you go. Whether you’re spending extra time with your firstborn, sneaking in date nights, or just enjoying a quiet coffee before the newborn whirlwind begins—do what feels right for you. And when things get overwhelming, remind yourself: you’ve done this before, and you’ve got this!

So take a deep breath, embrace the chaos, and get ready for double the love, double the cuddles, and yes—double the baby giggles. It’s going to be amazing!